Why We Give in to Road Rage

Posted: August 29, 2012 in Daily Life
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It’s 7:46, and you’re running late for work. You’re caffeine-deprived and working on six hours of sleep. Your hair is still damp from the shower, and you’re trying to balance a travel mug of coffee in your hands while changing the station on the radio. There’s a crisis at work, again, and it’s waiting for you to be solved when you get to your destination. You’re merging onto the highway, and suddenly, a car cuts you off on the left, coming from nowhere at 78 miles per hour. You, a mature, responsible person, respond the only way that seems appropriate, with a slur of curse words and a laying on of the horn.

Everyone has given in to road rage at some point in their driving careers. What is it about the cushion of the car that turns considerate people into passive-aggressors bent on revenge? It could be that the vehicle provides us with a sense of anonymity that allows us to feel safe expressing our frustration.

Drivers tend to view their vehicles as an extension of themselves. We choose the make and design we want, we decorate them according to our own personalities, we fill them with the miscellanea that make up our day to day lives. When someone cuts us off on the road, we feel that they are wronging us, not our cars. However, unlike when someone acts aggressively toward us in real life, we have an extra 4,000 pounds we can use to assert our dominance. That feeling of power can cause a sense of competition on the road, encouraging drivers to try to maintain control.

If driving a two-ton weapon on wheels wasn’t enough to make us act a little more aggressively than usual, there is also the added factor of anonymity. We feel camouflaged by our vehicles and tinted windows, making it seem as if there will not be personal consequences for our actions. If anyone has ever clicked on the comments thread of a news article, they will be able to tell you that anonymity doesn’t always lead to level-headed responses to anger.

So the next time you’re feeling angry on the road, try to remember that there’s a person in the other car, probably feeling the same way that you do. Unless they’re tailgating you in traffic, of course; then all rules are off.

Do you have any road rage stories that you’ve survived?

  1. Shannygirl says:

    My husband tells me alot that I’m going to get shot one day because I suffer from road rage.. I’ve learned to tone it down a bit lately but I believe you are right… we feel invincible in a car.. 10 feet tall and bullet proof… except in fact, it’s not the pope mobile so it is not bullet proof

  2. Staffan says:

    I think this is a cultural phenomenon. I read an American writer who was amazed by the lack of road rage in Sweden. A number of years back we had a huge blizzard in Stockholm when people got stuck everywhere for like ten hours and more. Some on bridges had to go take a dump in front of other motorists and people were crashing into each other everywhere. This in a town of 1.5 million inhabitants. And yet, not a single reported incident of violence. I think you would find a similar attitude in other Scandinavian and probably East Asian countries.

  3. Chelsea says:

    It drives me crazy when I look back and there’s someone shouting at me and riding my tail pipe. If I’m not going 30 over the speed limit like you want me to, maybe you should go around when you get the chance. Especially because I stay in the right lane, the “slow” lane. Or just chill the heck out. All the people around us are going about the same speed. Getting me out of your way will advance you about 5 feet. Good job! Course, I’m sure I don’t help. When someone does that long enough I’ll slow down until they back off. If they don’t, they end up going 20 miles an hour for awhile.

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